Can’t be bothered to introduce myself. I met an INFJ tested him, based on suspicion a few things I would love to know more about and get cleared. Assuming the majority of you are INFJ’s or have admirable knowledgeable about these types of people, you’re insights would be very much appreciated it. I’ts obvious, at least for me. He seems to be quite articulate with his thoughts and feelings, emotionally expressive and mature. Something I envy and admire, which drew me to him further.
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Yes Matthew, This is a bit long, apologies ahead of time. I was one of the people making the same point. I watched your video as well on responding calmly, and let actions speak for us.
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They hold high personal standards for both themselves and others. This analytical type finds themselves drawn to relationships with other intuitive-dominant types who place a high value on intellectual exploration. INTJs are not impulsive people. In fact, it could take them years to properly decide whether or not the two of you make sense together.
First they have to discern whether or not they are attracted to you. Then they have to assess your suitability as a partner. Last but certainly not least in terms of time allocation , they have to form an action plan regarding which steps they should take to win you over. INTJs are interested in people — what makes them tick, what pushes their buttons and how they operate on a rational and emotional level. INTJs plan out their every move — they have probably been contemplating your date on Friday since Monday.
Changing the plan at the last minute is offsetting to them — and will almost never go over well.
The Rules Revisited I’ve dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men. If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female’s ignorance of the male mindset. At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
The Complicated Nature of INTJs Explained to Normal People. In the day and age where everyone wants to be classified in some personality type, there exists an especially obscure type sitting in the oddest most abstract of corners, the INTJ.
December 10, One of the most frustrating things I had with people is the lack of empathy and dismissive attitude to what happened to me. Was it the worst thing ever? But the past two years had a lot of situations that traumatized me along with people who hurt me deeply. It’s incredibly frustrating that people who haven’t been through what I’ve been through are so dismissive about how my life has been affected by shitty and unreasonable people, multiple hospitalizations, countless “medications” which honestly fucked me up more than it helped.
I haven’t been severely depressed my whole life, I would say I’ve had a mild depression dysthymia as one of my psychiatrists said until in when I went through a lot of emotional trauma. I was then hospitalized and put in a psych ward two years ago on Christmas because I drank a lot I’m sure I was the only person ever in the universe to cope with a depressive episode with a single night of drinking. At that point I had no suicidal urges, no self harm urges.
However that hospitalization experience traumatized me and once they put me on meds for the first time I began to experience suicidal thinking. What was not disclosed to me until a couple weeks ago is how they were putting me on medication for bipolar disorder. They never really informed me they believed I had bipolar and today my psychiatrist has concluded I most definitely do not have bipolar disorder.
They put me through treatment for borderline personality disorder which included a hospital stay several states away from my home and once again, now they concluded I don’t have borderline personality disorder either. It’s honestly no wonder now that the medications and treatment I was put under initially greatly made my life worse. I’m doing “okay” today.
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Whether that applies to actually rock’n roll through life or to the reason why one may still be single when in their fourties isn’t fully clear to me yet. Although the latter was helped by me in no small part too. And I always was a type of solitary man, anyway. Writing this, I recall once having mentioned being a solitary man during the earlier stages of discovery with what would become my partner in life for the next few years.
Water, bridge, hindsight and all that stuff it is now clear to me that isn’t the smartest thing to say during the flirting stage. Sometimes, I just am that stupid and my mouth acts faster than my brain.
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Hillary Clinton speaks to the Press Corp on the airport tarmac in front of her campaign plane before flying off on a day of campaigning in White Plains, New York on Thursday September 8, But telling a Presidential candidate that she should be projecting cheerfulness while talking about military policy, terrorist threats, and wartime engagements abroad is as preposterous as the prospect of Clinton actually laughing and bubbling her way through that discussion would be disturbing.
And Clinton is aware of this. But I had to learn as a young woman to control my emotions. And there is always downside to conforming to the Platonically Good archetype. You are expected to be liked by everyone but being liked by everyone will often mean avoiding controversy, strong opinions — or opinions at all — and never publicly disagreeing with anyone. You are expected to be the communicator and the nurturer, whose primary function is to get everyone on the same page, often at your own expense but you will be perceived as a serial compromiser with no backbone if you do that.
You are supposed to be decisive but if you are, you will be punished for not getting enough input from other people, or being arrogant for not second-guessing yourself. You are supposed to be upbeat and bubbly but if you are, people will think your bubbly-ness is a function of your airheaded-ness. My humor skews deadpan and one of my closest friends described me in an essay about our friendship for the late More magazine thusly:
The Dumbest Dating Mistake Everyone Makes…
Rule number one and perhaps the most important: Let her come to you. Keep up with your own hobbies and interests. Share this with her if she cares to explore them with you, but having your own set of interests will make you FAR more attractive to her.
Continue reading Vulnerability In Dating Most of the men, not all (ah hem last NY guy), have scored high on the integrity scale. Not only does this lend itself to a relationship full of Continue reading An INTJ’s Take on Integrity.
But there is one guy who I am interested in who seems to not fit that mold. He takes hours to answer a text message when we all KNOW that our phones are glued to our face. I told him it bothers me but he keeps doing it! What is the deal? I think all guys would generally agree: The times in my life that I would go MIA on a text message would be: I think I speak for all guys when I say avoid acting needy at all costs.
Neediness has repelled me away from more women than I care to disclose. Am I Being Needy?
Why It’s So Hard To Break Up With Someone (Even When You Need To)
Why Do Men Lie? I see a lot of fears floating around in the the dating world and it can be disheartening. In order to have a truly fulfilling relationship or even start a healthy relationship with a great guy, you need to come from a place of strength, confidence, and fulfillment.
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Today, I will demonstrate exactly why I had to very reluctantly, permanently boycott Russian women from my dating life. As always, we need to get our definitions straight. Most of the problematic women I encountered were indeed from Russia, but many were from its satellite countries as well. Lastly, I understand that there are exceptions to every rule. Russian women are the most beautiful women on Earth. They also tend to be good in bed. At the same time, Russian women are usually angry, bitchy, demanding, dominant, and have sky-high levels of both drama and ASD.
The Complicated Nature of INTJs Explained to Normal People
We have been talking over the internet and phone for awhile and I feel like we have gotten to know each other pretty well. Sounds like a good a reason as any, go for it Our conversation over the phone was pretty deep, we talked about what we wanted in our future, what type of persons we are and what made us tick. It seems to me like we have a tremendous amount in common, I can honestly admit I have never felt so connected to someone i’ve never met.
Understand the system I guess Click to expand That’s the Te we all love, know and love I’m very strong on my intuitive side, and I know when something seems “right”.
Dating, I Suck at This Game – INTJ. And I always was a type of solitary man, anyway. Writing this, I recall once having mentioned being a solitary man during the earlier stages of discovery with what would become my partner in life for the next few years. Water, bridge.
Some of the most common ones are: This is not to say that INFJs dislike or disconnect completely from physical intimacy, but rather it may be their least effective way of showing their feelings. When an INFJ does interact physically, it is always with great emotional depth. They embrace the opportunity to bond heart and soul with their mates. Intimacy is an opportunity for the INFJ to selflessly give their love, and experience it in a tangible way.
Most find them a pointless use of energy. If, however, an INFJ does engage in a seemingly emotionless fling, they will usually either attach manifested emotions to the other person or they will use the sex as a method of self-loathing. Simply put, sexual or physical experiences to an INFJ are something that they do with great purpose of showing love for another. If you are in a committed relationship with an INFJ, recognize that everything from a brief kiss to passionate love-making is perceived as an intensely spiritual experience of expressing feelings and should never be taken lightly.
With that being said, as a general rule, INFJs do have certain personalities that appear to be the best fit. Their strong Ne function allows them to connect well with an INFJ while still acting as a compliment to their personality type. As both personality types can rely very heavily on their strong iNtuition, INTJs and INFJs can understand one another and themselves on a level they may struggle to reach with other personality types.